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If you ask us, the best sex toys on the market today are right up there with fire and the wheel in terms of humanity's greatest inventions. Go ahead, laugh: but what is technology supposed to do besides make our lives easier and more pleasant? And let's be honest, what's more pleasant than a toe-curling orgasm?
Because regardless of your gender, anatomy, and sexual orientation, it’s nearly guaranteed that you can find a sex toy that suits your needs. Toys lend some variety and intensity to masturbation, making it feel fresh and hot again when you’re bored of your hand. They can help you explore new pleasures, learning more about your body and preferences in the process, and thereby setting you up for better sex in the future. Scientists have even determined that using sex toys can improve sexual desire levels, pelvic floor health, and overall sexual satisfaction. It makes sense, then, that the massive catalogue of available sex toys just keeps on growing, and that sex toys are a $30 billion industry.
And whether we're considering sex toys for men or sex toys for women, the best sex toys also work wonders during partnered sex of all kinds. Adding clitoral stimulation to good old penis-in-vagina intercourse can amp up sensations for the both of you. Incorporating an anal toy like a butt plug or dildo or prostate massager into oral sex (for either the giver or receiver!) can take your pleasure to new levels. Some products, such as sex pillows and waterproof blankets, make sex comfier and more convenient so you can focus on feeling good. And when you get into a sexual rut, sometimes a kinky toy like a paddle or a blindfold is the ideal antidote for your erotic apathy.
No matter what sex toy(s) you decide to go with, remember that toys are just fun tools—they’re not your competition or your replacement, any more than a carpenter is in competition with their hammer. Because sometimes the most important part of getting a job done is knowing which tools to use and how best to use them–and when you use sex toys, you’re expanding not only your sexual tool kit, but also your capacity for life-altering pleasure.
Table of Contents
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- The Best Sex Toys for Men
- The Best Sex Toys for Women
- The Best Sex Toys for Couples
- The Best Prostate Massagers
- The Best Sex Toys on Amazon
- The Best Anal Sex Toys
- The Best Long-Distance Sex Toys
- The Best Cock Rings
- The Best Strokers
- The Best Kinky Toys
- The Best Nipple Clamps
- The Best Male Masturbators
- The Best Sex Furniture
- The Best Ball Toys
- The Best Rabbit Vibrators
- The Best Sex Toys for Beginners
- The Best Wand Vibrators
While you're likely aware of the infamous Fleshlight, the first and most well-known male masturbator, you might not know that the manufacturers came out with what they call the Quickshot. It's smaller than the original, with only 3.5 inches to insert your penis, meaning it (likely) won't cover the entire shaft. But the perks are that it's easy to store discreetly, and doesn't look like a typical Fleshlight, which isn't necessarily something you want a casual hookup to stumble on.
Pros: Pleasurably textured interior; translucent casing for a better view; open-ended design makes it easier to clean the toy between uses and to combine it with oral sex, handjobs, etc.; more compact and travel-friendly than regular-size Fleshlights; inexpensive
Cons: Porous material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone
This incredibly rumbly vibrator is designed to wrap around your shaft and stimulate your sensitive frenulum, whether you're stroking it up and down or just holding it on your sweet spot. Unlike most penis toys, this one works well even when you're not fully hard yet.
Pros: Unique oscillations can feel “rumblier” and deeper than standard vibrations; can be used with or without an erection; waterproof; easy to clean
Cons: Not as easily incorporated into partnered sex as some other strokers
These anal beads hold their shape better than a standard set, so they're easy to guide in even if you've never tried beads before. That "popping" sensation as each bead moves in and out of you can make orgasms surprisingly intense!
Pros: Beads gradually escalate in size, helping you work up to larger penetration comfortably; ring-shaped base makes removal quick and easy
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything fancy; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
Is the Tenga Egg masturbator going to change your sex life? No. Will you use it to masturbate every single time? Absolutely not. But for less than seven dollars a egg, this super-stretchable elastomer sleeve can become one of many tools in your jerk box to switch things up when the old-fashion way starts growing stale.
Pros: Very affordable for a stroker; great variety of internal textures available; soft, squishy material; comes with its own lube
Cons: Disposable (meant to be thrown away after one to three uses)
If you watch porn, you've probably seen a Magic Wand in action at some point. It's the OG ultra-powerful vibrator, and it got even better when its maker introduced a cordless model a few years back. It may not be most discreet massager in the world, but that's honestly a big part of its charm: There's nothing subtle about this toy or the orgasms it doles out.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; four vibration speeds and four patterns; can be used while charging
Cons: Gets buzzier on higher speeds; gets loud on higher speeds; not waterproof
If good things come in small packages, this vibe is a prime example. Its tiny size means its big, rumbly vibrations come as a surprise the first time you flip it on. It's waterproof, so it's an ideal companion for bathtub masturbation or shower sex.
Pros: Strong and rumbly vibrations; eight different intensity levels; fits easily between bodies; waterproof; quiet; silicone grip for comfort and ease of use; travel lock function
Cons: May rattle against genital piercings if you have them
Rather than vibrations, the Womanizer uses rhythmic pulses of air to create a clit sensation that’s somewhere between sucking and tapping. It sort of has to be experienced to be understood. This model has an “autopilot" mode that varies the sensation, which makes it feel even (more) like oral from a real live human (especially when generously lubed).
Pros: Powerful and unique pressure-wave sensations; quiet; waterproof; 14 intensity levels; long battery life; optional “autopilot mode” automatically changes the toy’s intensity level over time so you don’t have to; comes with two differently sized stimulation heads to choose from
Cons: May not fit especially small or large clits
This silicone vibrator is quite powerful, but what really distinguishes it is the shape, which is perfect for rubbing against the G-spot with or without vibrations.
Pros: Fantastic shape for G-spot stimulation; can also be used clitorally; strong and rumbly vibrations; six vibration settings; waterproof; quiet; travel lock function
Cons: Not anal-safe; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
Dual-stimulation vibrators hit inside and outside at the same time—you might remember the classic Rabbit vibrator from Sex and the City. But these things are notoriously difficult to pick out, because the distance between the clit and the vaginal opening varies so much from person to person. But this one is practically universal: it uses a super-flexible arm to reach the clit as the user thrusts the toy in and out without losing contact.
Pros: Strong and rumbly vibrations; stimulates G-spot and clitoris simultaneously; flexible clitoral arm helps maintain contact with your clit when thrusting the toy; both components can be controlled separately; Bluetooth-controllable (including long-distance) via the We-Vibe app; quiet; waterproof; travel lock function
Cons: Not especially versatile (it’s hard to use either arm of the toy on its own)
This gorgeous solid stainless steel toy is ideal for applying firm pressure to the G-spot. Just maybe pack a waterproof poncho if your partner is a squirter.
Pros: Excellent curve for G-spot/P-spot stimulation; steel allows you to apply firm pressure; double-ended design gives you two size options to choose from; great for temperature play; extremely durable and long-lasting; comes in a gift-ready wooden box with pink satin lining
Cons: May be uncomfortably firm for some users; somewhat heavy (1.51 lbs)
Many companies have done a version of We-Vibe's signature C-shaped vibrator, but the original is still the best. Meant to be "worn" during intercourse, the We-Vibe stimulates both partners at once, for stronger (and possibly simultaneous) orgasms. This model has two hinges at its center, so you can adjust it to achieve the right fit.
Pros: Bluetooth-controllable; powerful vibrations; adjustable fit; stimulates clitoris and G-spot simultaneously; 10 different intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t easily use either arm of the toy on its own; hinges may snap if handled too aggressively
It's no secret that standard P-in-V sex doesn't always give the clit the stimulation it needs, and a slim toy can be just the thing to get both parties over the line. This petite toy is one of those “sucking” toys that uses rhythmic pulses of air to create clitoral sensations that mimic great oral sex—and unlike many other toys with this toe-curling technology, the We-Vibe Melt is slim enough to slip between bodies easily.
Pros: Flexible nozzle for increased comfort; low-profile shape allows it to fit well between bodies during sex; 12 intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: May not fit all clit sizes
It's a bit like strapping a V-8 to your shaft: This deep, satisfying motor enhances sex for both parties when the vibrating silicone hits skin. Also handy? You could also slip your fingers through the loop and penetrate a partner while the vibrator stimulates the outside.
Pros: Can be used as a cock ring or as a handheld vibe; stretchy ring accommodates a range of penis sizes; powerful vibrations; five vibration strengths and two patterns; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life
This vibrator curves around your shaft and stimulates all the most sensitive spots. Best of all, the other side also vibrates, so your partner can press themselves against it at the same time. If you're a fan of slow dry-humping but would love if it were, well, less "dry," try this one out.
Pros: Very powerful vibrations; can be used flaccid or erect; nine speeds and five vibration modes; vibrating underside for a partner to grind against; underside’s intensity can be controlled independently with the included remote; fits a wide range of penis sizes; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life
The power dynamics, the gender play, the potential for intense prostate orgasms? Pegging is fun. And if you're curious, this kit will get you started: it comes with a harness, two differently-sized toys (including a starter-sized one for total newbies), and a small vibrator you can slip into the harness to make sure you both enjoy yourselves. Add lots and lots of water-based lube and you're good to go!
Pros: Smooth dildos for comfortable anal entry; comes with two differently-sized dildos; harness is machine-washable; waterproof; harness can be adjusted to fit hips up to 60 inches around; dildos and vibrator can be swapped out for other ones from your collection as long as they fit
Cons: Weak and buzzy vibrations
Take simple fingering to the next level: Wrap it around your digits—now your fingers vibrate. Add a squirt of lube and get down to it.
Pros: Easy to hold onto, including during penetrative sex; tether is optional/removable; travel-friendly; quiet
Cons: Only three vibration intensities; not waterproof
The best massager on the market, bar none. It's expensive, but if you plan on using it more than a few times, then there's no reason not to splurge. The incredible precision of the vibrations separates Hugo from the pack. To control the speed and intensity, you simply tilt the circular remote. So if you tilt down and to the right, the vibrations will be stronger on the back right side.
Pros: Great shape for prostate stimulation; eight adjustable settings of powerfully rumbly vibration; two motors to stimulate both prostate and perineum at once; silky-smooth silicone; can be used with or without the included remote; waterproof
Cons: May be too large for some users; remote uses disposable batteries
Prostate massagers are pricey, which makes a certain amount of sense. (You don't want to stick just anything up there.) The Helix Trident is on the cheaper side, as it goes. Unlike most other toys on the list, this one doesn't vibrate, but it still works great, particularly if you're completely new to anal play and prostate stimulation—the Helix is a great starter toy. If you determine you love the sensation of something inside you, then you can upgrade to a more expensive vibrating model.
Pros: Hands-free prostate stimulation; good size for beginners; also stimulates perineum; can be used with any kind of lube
Cons: No vibration; head may be too blunt for some beginners to insert comfortably
If you've ever enjoyed the "scooping" or "come hither" motion of a partner's fingers (or your own) on your prostate, you'd probably love this toy. In addition to vibrating, it "waves" up and down in a massaging motion, creating ultra-intense orgasms.
Pros: Two rumbly motors to pleasure both prostate and perineum simultaneously; up-and-down “waving” motion; waterproof; five wave settings and five vibration settings
Cons: Loud; waving motion is slow; may be too large for some users
Feel like spoiling yourself? It's hard to beat stainless steel in terms of pure luxury and beauty. This non-vibrating plug presses firmly against your prostate every time you squeeze your muscles around it, making it a super pleasurable addition to intercourse or oral sex.
Pros: Pleasurable heaviness; good curve for prostate stimulation; beginner-friendly size; looped handle for easier insertion and removal; can be used with any kind of lube; good for temperature play; will last basically forever
Cons: Tends to slip out if worn long-term or while standing up
The Duke isn't messing around—it should only be used by anal pros. It goes much further inside your rectum than any other massager on this list: it has three separate components that stimulate various highly-sensitive erogenous zones. The first part extends far past your prostate, hitting the deep inner walls of your rectum. The second section directly nuzzles against your prostate, and the third and final section hugs your perineum to help keep the toy in place. Given how much area it covers, the Duke leads to incredibly powerful orgasms.
Pros: Stimulates both the prostate and the perineum; flexible for comfort; removable bullet vibrator can be used elsewhere; waterproof
Cons: Some users might find it too large or too curved for comfort; only two steady vibration speeds (and three patterns); may slip out during use
The hefty size and deep curve of this silicone dildo helps it locate your prostate with ease, provided you can handle how big it is. It's got a removable bullet vibrator in the base that makes it feel even better.
Pros: Great curve for prostate stimulation; satisfyingly girthy shaft; harness-compatible for strap-on sex; bullet vibrator is removable; waterproof; three vibration speeds
Cons: Weak vibrations; too large for some users; bullet vibrator uses disposable batteries
You hand is great, but there's a way to take your masturbation to another level. An outer layer creates a tight seal while the ridged internal wall squeezes you from both sides. It works, and once you're finished, it's easy to clean and reuse.
Pros: Interior is pleasurably textured; can be flipped open for easier cleaning and drying; squeezable pressure pads create internal vacuum suction
Cons: Porous material has a shorter lifespan than silicone; often noisy during use; may not fit all penis sizes
The Lelo Tor II is the ultimate couples device. Cock rings restrict the flow of blood, increasing the intensity of orgasms and offering longer, harder erections—which your partner is absolutely going to like. But this model adds a raised vibrating head to give your partner the exact sensation they're craving.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; 6 vibration modes; increases erection strength; stimulates both partners during penetrative sex; waterproof; travel lock function
Cons: May be uncomfortably tight on girthier penises
This toy uses air and suction to create unique sensations on the external clitoris—it feels a bit like oral sex. Put the nozzle over your partner's clitoris and let the toy do the work. This slim design works great during penetration—it gives her the stimulation she's craving without moving a vibrator around. (It also feels good on anyone's nipples—try it!)
Pros: 11 pressure-wave intensities; soft silicone head for a better, more comfortable seal around the clitoris; waterproof; inexpensive for what it is
Cons: Won’t fit all clit sizes
Anal beads feel great on the way in and the way out. When inserted, this toy can hit the prostate while you mess around—either partnered or solo. It'll just hang out and stay put. But the most fun happens upon removal. If you remove the plug slowly, and allow each bead to "pop," it can massively intensify your climax.
Pros: Beads gradually increase in size for easier insertion; beginner-friendly diameter (three-quarters of an inch); comfortably flexible; fun-looking jewel at base
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything else fancy
Anal beads are great, but add vibration and it's like being rocketed to a different dimension. The Triplet beads come in graduated sizes: Start by inserting the smallest one, then work up to all three. When it feels right, use the remote to up the intensity of the vibration.
Pros: Beads taper in size for easier insertion; two powerful motors; six vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns; comfortably curved base; comes with a remote control; includes a travel case; travel lock function
Cons: Not waterproof; remote uses disposable batteries
For an advanced user of anal beads, the nJoy Fun Wand is the upgrade you need. It's made from stainless steel, so it works with ultra-slick silicone lube, and it's heavy enough to use the power of gravity to put extra pressure on the prostate and the anal opening when the beads are removed. It isn't exactly for beginners, but if this sounds about right, just take it slow and figure out what feels good. (Bonus: Stainless steel is extra easy to clean.)
Pros: Double-ended design for more sensation options; curved to hit the G-spot or prostate; great for temperature play; will last basically forever; comes in a gift-ready wooden storage box
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything else fancy; may be too small for some users’ preferences
Rimming can feel amazing regardless of your gender or genitals. Everyone's anus is a highly sensitive nerve-packed area that deserves some exploration. And what better way to do that than with the b-Vibe Rimming 2 butt plug? It has rotating beads at the base, for intense stimulation around your sensitive anal entrance. This toy will delight beginners who are new to butt stuff, but it's powerful enough for seasoned pros too.
Pros: Unique rotating sensation is similar to getting rimmed; seven rotation settings and six vibration patterns; comes with a remote control that can change the toy’s settings from up to 30 feet away
Cons: May be too large for some users; no curve for prostate stimulation; not waterproof; remote uses disposable batteries
The Love Distance Range is ideal for any partner with a vulva who enjoys internal and external stimulation at the same time. This waterproof app-controlled toy, made from body-safe silicone, gives you the ability to control it while you watch your partner enjoy from afar. And there are a lot of dials to turn: This toy has 20 different speed patterns.
Pros: Remotely controllable via the Love Distance app; powerful vibrations; 12 vibration speeds and 20 patterns; comes with a satin storage bag; waterproof
Cons: Minimal clitoral stimulation when worn vaginally
Ignoring the prostate means missing out on a whole new way to orgasm—just saying. And the Vector is the best remote-control prostate massager on the market. It offers an adjustable bulb for the perfect fit, and has a rumbly, slowly intense effect on your most sensitive parts. Connect it to the We-Connect app to customize the patterns of vibration, and it's the perfect thing to change up the game when sharing the old rub and tug starts to get old during phone sex.
Pros: Good shape and size for anal beginners; 10+ vibration modes; adjustable angle; stimulates both the prostate and the perineum; Bluetooth-controllable for short-distance or long-distance play; waterproof
Cons: Bluetooth connectivity can be unreliable
The We-Vibe Sync is designed to provide clitoral stimulation during penetration by hooking over the clitoris and into the vagina. It's also remote controlled. That means there's a few things you can do here: It makes for a fantastic vibrator for solo play. Since it's a couple's toy, you can use it together once you reunite (or, you know, meet up for the first time). And if you're in some sort of throuple or your sex life is otherwise extra interesting, you can control it as two other people get down to it.
Pros: Bluetooth-controllable; powerful vibrations; adjustable fit; stimulates clitoris and G-spot simultaneously; 10 different intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t easily use either arm of the toy on its own
This stroking toy uses a super realistic-feeling sleeve surrounded by nine bullet vibrators to get the job done—and trust us, it does. And it's networked: You can connect the device to nearly any adult video platform for solo play or connect directly to your partner's Kiiroo vibrator (any model will work) and allow the toys to "talk to each other." It's a revolution in remote sex.
Pros: Nine vibration motors; can be wirelessly synced to porn (including interactive and VR porn) or to a partner’s device
Cons: Porous sleeve material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone
Adding vibration to penetrative sex can make it feel awesome for both partners, and this is the best product for the job. It's got deep, rumbly vibrations and is made of silky-smooth silicone for a luxurious feel.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds and eight patterns; Bluetooth-controllable via the We-Vibe app; quiet; waterproof
Cons: May be too tight for girthier penises
Even the most basic of cock rings, like this one, can do a lot: they constrict the blood flow at the base of your dick to enable stronger, longer-lasting erections, and they increase your sensitivity and pleasure. This is an ideal first cock ring to try out if you're curious about 'em.
Pros: Helps with erection strength and stamina; flat design helps it stay put; stretchy to fit a broad range of penis sizes; very affordable
Cons: No bells and whistles
This set contains multiple different-sized cock rings, so you can experiment and find the one(s) you like best. Try using one around just your shaft, just your balls, or both at the same time to see which you prefer.
Pros: Helps with erection strength and stamina; set comes with three different-sized rings to experiment with; very affordable
Cons: Rounded shape means the rings may roll up or down your shaft rather than staying put; no bells and whistles
There are two motors in this silicone cock ring, so it stimulates your partner while also vibrating your nerve-packed perineum. Even using it solo feels good, but using it with someone else can be explosive.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; five speeds and five vibration modes; two motors for extra power; stimulate’s wearer’s perineum and their partner’s clitoris or perineum; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life; may be too tight for girthier penises
You can create your own custom vibration modes for this toy using Lovense's app, and can even have a partner control the toy from afar. Play around with its versatile shape to figure out where its vibrating part feels best for you.
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; attached stimulator curves to hit wearer’s balls or perineum, or their partner’s clitoris or perineum; Bluetooth-controllable via the Lovense app; can be used long-distance; waterproof; long battery life
Cons: May not be large/stretchy enough to fit girthier penises\
Designed to help you learn to last longer, this highly textured stroker can feel overstimulating at first—but the more you practice edging with it, the better you'll be able to control yourself when boning an actual person.
Pros: Highly stimulating internal texture; soft and squishy enough to accommodate a variety of penis sizes; can dissemble it and turn it inside out for easier cleaning
Cons: Porous material means it will need to be replaced sooner than a silicone toy; can be noisy
In addition to powerful vibrations and a flexible textured sleeve, this stroker contains 10 sensors that help you track metrics like your thrusting speed and stamina in the accompanying app. It's like a love letter to horny geeks everywhere.
Pros: Two powerful motors for satisfying vibrations; stimulates the frenulum well; comfortably flexible internal sleeve; sensors to track your speed and stamina via Lelo’s app; quiet; waterproof
Cons: App is poorly designed/hard to use; may not fit all penis sizes
This stroker offers vibrations as well as rhythmic "contractions" that feel a lot like when a partner's pelvic muscles squeeze tight around you during sex. A partner can take control using the Lovense app, making this a solid choice for long-distance sweethearts.
Pros: Offers both vibration and contractions/squeezing; multiple settings for each function; sleeve can be removed for easier cleaning; adjustable air vent so you can control the amount of suction; syncs with some other Lovense toys for a “teledildonic” experience; water-resistant; long battery life
Cons: Noisy; large and bulky
With a translucent stroker like this, the exhibitionistic and voyeuristic possibilities are endless. Whether you want to snap a hot selfie for a long-distance partner or put on a sexy show for them in person, this toy functions as–quite literally—a window into your arousal.
Pros: Pleasurably textured interior; translucent for a better view; hard plastic case for travel and storage; fits a wide range of penises
Cons: Porous material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone; large and not very discreet; cleaning can be annoying; can be loud during use
The same "pressure-wave" technology found in clit toys like the Womanizer is also used in this stroker, to stimulate the most sensitive area of the penis–the frenulum—in a totally unique way. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but there's really nothing like it.
Pros: Offers unique “pressure-wave” sensation; easy to dissemble for cleaning; storage base doubles as a drying rack
Cons: Not everyone likes the pressure-wave sensation; noisy; expensive; won’t work for penises shorter than 3.5 inches; needs to be held still (rather than stroked up and down) to work best
Curious about bondage but not sure where to start? Restraint doesn't get much simpler than these silicone cuffs. Just slip them on and you're ready for some kinky fun.
Pros: Easier/faster to put on than most cuffs; won’t cut off your circulation like metal cuffs; stretchy and therefore easier to remove and put on
Cons: Not as secure as traditional cuffs; may not fit all wrist sizes (two-inch internal diameter)
This cult-fave product turns your bed into a bondage station. Slip the long straps under your mattress (it's easier than it sounds) and you'll have two wrist cuffs and two ankle cuffs hanging off the edges of your bed, ready to be used whenever you want. It's like bondage on easy mode.
Pros: Relatively quick setup; fits any mattress size; makes bondage easy and convenient; can be tucked away under mattress when not in use; included Velcro cuffs can be swapped out for different ones; fits a wide range of wrist sizes
Cons: May be difficult to set up if your bed is against the wall and/or if you’re not physically strong enough to lift your mattress slightly; included cuffs are not the best quality
While not made for kinky purposes, this sleep mask makes an excellent blindfold. It blocks out light like no other, and can be adjusted to fit multiple head sizes. And if your partner wears eye makeup, they can rest at ease knowing the convex "eye cups" of this mask won't mess up their look.
Pros: Molded eye cups put no pressure on eyelids/eyelashes; design blocks out all (or almost all) light and visibility; adjustable size;
Cons: Hand wash only
Nipple clamps are a fun way to add some light sadomasochism into a sex session. These ones have comfy tips that won't dig in, and the amount of tension is adjustable. Once they're on, tug the chain for a burst of pain!
Pros: Easy to use; adjustable tightness; provides some light pain mixed with pleasure; chain can be tugged on to intensify sensations; nickel-free
Cons: Soft silicone tips may slide off
If you're into spanking, or think you might be, a paddle is a good investment—it'll spare you from hand pain as your hits get harder, and can feel very different from your hand. This one is inexpensive, easy to wield, and covered in faux leather that provides an invigorating stinging sensation.
Pros: Size and shape are easy to maneuver even for beginners; wrist strap for a more secure grip and easier storage; faux-leather material is easy to clean
Cons: Pain may be too “stingy”/surface-level for some users’ preferences
If you’ve never tried nipple clamps before, your best bet is are adjustable clamps like this one. Those with a low pain tolerance should be able to handle these alligator clamps thanks to their adjustability, which can be tightened or loosened for customizable pain. Also, the metal chain between them is fun to tug on when you want to send a jolt of pain through the wearer’s body.
Pros: Affordable; adjustable pressure/pain; rubber tips for comfort
Cons: Rubber tips may slide off; only mildly to moderately painful
Some added weight can intensify the thrilling pain on your nipples, which is why the weighted cylinders on these clamps make them perfect for kinky masochists. But the weights are removable, so if you'd rather play without 'em sometimes, you can do that too—it's the best of both worlds.
Pros: Removable weights for optional added pain/intensity; comfortable rubber tips
Cons: No connecting chain (although you could add your own); non-adjustable tightness
Clamp these onto your nipples, hit the power button on the attached control panel, and you’ll feel an intriguing blend of pain and pleasure.
Pros: Adjustable vibration intensity
Cons: May slip off; remote is wired and requires two AAA batteries, not included; non-adjustable tightness
Setting aside its unappetizing name, this might just be the best option if you want a toy that improves upon, but doesn’t completely change, your usual playtime of hand-on-junk action. It offers the soft squishiness and super-stimulating texture of a Fleshlight, but you control the speed and tightness with your hand the way you normally do.
Pros: Finger holes for an easier grip; pleasantly textured interior; pressure is adjustable depending on how hard you squeeze; comes with a storage case which doubles as a drying rack
Cons: Porous material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone
The temperature of a sex toy can make a big difference in how good it feels and how much it resembles the sensations of real-deal sex, which is why it’s so nifty that this vibrating stroker heats up to a max temperature of 104 degrees Fahrenheit. It’s pretty shallow inside, though, so (depending on your length) it’ll work best if you like to focus on the head of your penis instead of the whole shaft. It’s rechargeable through a USB cable, and the body-safe silicone is super smooth and hygienic.
Pros: Heating function for added realism and comfort; 11 vibration modes; waterproof
Cons: Penetrable length is only three inches, so may not be as satisfying for longer penises; may also be too tight for girthy penises; vibrations on the weaker side; short battery life
This toy is basically a handjob machine: it controls an included stroker and allows you to adjust the tightness of its grip, as well as the speed and length of its strokes. Beginners will absolutely love this thing—it can reach speeds of up to 600 strokes per minute, so it’s definitely an upgrade from what your hand can do.
Pros: Automated stroking, with adjustable stroke length and speed; can swap out the included stroker for a different one if you like; Velcro strap for adjustable tightness; Bluetooth-compatible
Cons: Porous stroker material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone; requires a nearby power outlet; not safe to use in/near water
You can wrap this flexible vibrator around your dick wherever it feels the best, and keep it in place using the stretchy ring that comes with it. The toy connects to the Lovense app, which allows you to control its vibrations with your phone, or even let a long-distance partner take the wheel.
Pros: Powerful, rumbly vibrations; flexible enough to fit a range of penis sizes; can be used long-distance; Bluetooth-controllable; can create your own vibration patterns using the app; comes with a stretchy band that helps you get a tighter fit and use the toy hands-free if desired; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t easily be combined with oral sex or a handjob unless you use the toy lower on your shaft
Sex furniture and positioning aids are super helpful, but they can get pricey, so it'd be reasonable to try out a cheaper option before deciding whether to upgrade. This wedge-shaped pillow offers support for various sex positions and acts, and it's inflatable, so when you're done, you can deflate it for easier storage. "This quickly became my new favorite wedge cushion for sex positions!" one Amazon reviewer wrote. "I was surprised at just how stable and comfortable it is even though it’s an inflatable."
Pros: Provides support for various positions; soft material; lightweight; can be deflated to take up less space in storage or while traveling
Cons: May be too short or narrow for some users; its lightweightness can cause it to slide around during vigorous sex; have to inflate it yourself
This pillow is similar to the Jaz, above, but is slightly taller and shaped like a heart. "The Heart Wedge from Liberator makes for a great sex wedge that is perfect for lifting and positioning for deeper stimulation, plus it looks like a decorative bed pillow and no one will know the other sexy uses for it," points out Linnea Marie, a sexologist and relationship coach. Its discreet aesthetic might make it a good pick if you're worried about kids, roommates, nosy relatives, etc. spotting it.
Pros: Soft, machine-washable microvelvet cover; moisture-resistant lining; provides support for various positions; adorable and discreet aesthetic
Cons: May be too narrow for some users; may be too large to fit well alongside your other stuff in a small suitcase when traveling; shape is not as versatile as traditional square or rectangular wedges
"Chaises and sex pillows are my favorites because they are great for anyone who wants better orgasms, regardless of where you are in your sexual journey, and who doesn't want that?!" says Nikkita Grady, a sex educator and postpartum sex & intimacy coach. "They're especially useful if you have trouble reaching orgasm because they allow you to elevate your hips and try different angles and positions that might not have been possible before." This chaise ostensibly works well for yoga, stretching, and relaxing, but can also accommodate and facilitate a variety of sexual positions. It's one of those rare pieces of sex furniture that might actually get used as furniture just as often as it's used for sex, assuming you have enough space for it.
Pros: Soft, machine-washable microvelvet cover; useful for sitting/lying on and stretching/doing yoga as well; provides support in a variety of sexual positions
Cons: Expensive; takes up a lot of space; may not work for users whose hips are wider than 18 inches across; no moisture-resistant lining
The idea of a "ball-stretcher" might sound scary, but this type of product actually stretches your scrotum rather than your balls, similarly to how it would be stretched if you gently pulled downward on your sack. This toy functions similarly to a cock ring, inhibiting blood flow out of your penis to enable a stronger and longer-lasting erection, but it'll also give you that nice ball-tugging sensation at the same time. "I couldn’t be happier with my purchase. The material is extremely soft and has a good amount of stretch," one Amazon reviewer enthused. "It pulls on your balls with a good amount of pressure and feels great."
Pros: Tugs gently on balls and scrotum; increases erection strength, sensitivity, and stamina; stretchy and comfortable; anatomical channel at the bottom of the sling prevents the “pinching” sensation some cock rings cause during orgasm
Cons: Made of a porous material that will break down faster than pure silicone and can’t be cleaned as thoroughly
This luxe toy is a cock ring that also stimulates your balls and perineum, and can provide some pleasurable vibrations for your partner during penetrative sex as well. It's a bit clunky, and reviewers tend to report that its design could use some work, but with its four powerful motors, it's probably the most intense vibrating cock ring that also cups your balls. You can even control it with your phone and create your own custom vibration patterns. "It's probably not enough to send you to the moon, but it definitely provides variety to enhance other forms of stimulation," one Amazon reviewer wrote. "Worth the money. I've seen no other product like this."
Pros: Stimulates penis, perineum and balls all at once; can also stimulate your partner during penetrative sex; increases erection strength and sensitivity; four motors for intense vibrations; 16 vibration intensities and eight patterns; can be controlled via the MysteryVibe app
Cons: Not waterproof; expensive for a cock ring; can be difficult to get the toy onto your penis and balls
Ever wanted to penetrate someone with your balls? Frankly, probably not, but hey, guess what—you can! The Balldo basically turns your balls into a dildo, encasing them in a silicone sheath you can slide inside your partner's vagina or butt. There are openings on either side of the Balldo, so your balls will be stroked on every thrust. Some users—including my partner, when we tested this toy—have reported being able to have "ballgasms," i.e. climaxes from balls stimulation alone. Who knows whether "ballsex" will ever become a widespread practice, but if you're curious about it, this is the one and only toy I'm aware of that makes it possible!
Pros: Allows you to penetrate your partner with your balls, potentially creating new and unique sensations for both of you; doesn’t require an erection
Cons: Can be difficult or uncomfortable to get on; can be hard to get used to thrusting with your balls; the dildo itself may be too short and/or girthy for some users’ penetration preferences
The rabbit featured in a now-famous episode of Sex and the City was made of a porous material (elastomer) and used disposable batteries. So, while it was advanced for its time back in 1998, in our current era you can definitely do better. This model by Lovehoney is super similar to that much-loved classic: It features a rotating shaft for titillating G-spot stimulation, and those signature bunny ears for clitoral satisfaction, but it's made of body-safe silicone and is rechargeable. "I’ve had this rabbit for three years and it never gets boring," one Lovehoney reviewer wrote. "It has so many different settings to play around with, which keeps things playful and fun."
Pros: Rotating balls in shaft for G-spot stimulation; rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds, seven vibration patterns, and three rotation speeds; arms can be controlled separately; waterproof
Cons: No internal vibration; shaft has no curve to hit the G-spot
Along with the Nova 2 above, polyamory educator Leanne Yau counts this Snail Vibe as one of her favorite rabbit styles because "the clitoral vibrator on both moves with your body." Its spiral-shaped arm coils and uncoils with each thrust, ensuring that it stays in contact with your clit at all times. This toy's vibrations also pack a punch, so although it may look odd, it's the full package. Just be forewarned that you might go through more lube than usual with this toy, because the external arm (not just the internal one) needs to be lubricated in order to work its magic.
Pros: Unique spiraling design maintains clitoral contact during thrusting; strong and rumbly vibrations; five vibration speeds and five patterns; arms can be controlled separately; waterproof; comes with a storage/travel case
Cons: Shaft lacks a curve for G-spot stimulation; internal shaft only vibrates; external part needs lube to feel good; some users may find it applies too much clitoral pressure; short battery life
Although it can feel good to manually thrust a rabbit in and out, sometimes you want the toy to do the work for you—and that's where the Clutch comes in, well, clutch. Its internal arm jiggles in and out in a way that feels like tiny little thrusts right against the G-spot, while its external arm offers wonderfully rumbly clitoral vibrations. It holds a place of honor in my nightstand's top drawer because the orgasms it delivers are so consistent and intense.
Pros: Self-thrusting internal arm; rumbly external vibrations; seven vibration intensities and five vibration patterns; five thrusting intensities and five thrusting patterns; flexible clitoral stimulator; each arm can be controlled independently; ergonomic looped handle; waterproof
Cons: Internal arm is barely curved
Clinical sexologist and sex therapist Ness Cooper recommends this vibrator for its easy-to-hold “pebble” shape, which can fit right into the palm of your hand. Its lovely, low-pitched vibrations are wildly satisfying, whether you use it during sex, masturbation, or just incorporate it into a body massage. This vibe's soft and squishy tip (hence the name MiMi Soft) makes it more comfortable to use than vibrators made of hard materials like plastic.
Pros: Deep, rumbly vibrations; good size and shape for holding in the palm of your hand; versatile enough to be used on many different body parts; five vibration speeds and seven patterns; made of soft, comfortable silicone; waterproof
Cons: Might not be firm enough for users who like to apply a lot of pressure
Cooper recommends this slim, flexible Lovehoney dildo for first-time sex toy penetration, whether anal or vaginal, because of its “tapered tip that allows for effortless insertion, and its flared base which can also act as a handle.” Plus, its colorful glittery exterior is also fun to behold, so it might be a less intimidating option for newbies than something hyper-realistic.
Pros: Small-to-average size (6 inches long by 1.27 inches in diameter) makes it beginner-friendly and comfortable for vaginal or anal penetration; harness-compatible; suction cup base for hands-free use; good curve for targeting G-spot or prostate
Cons: Can’t be used with silicone-based lubes
“It’s quite common for people to buy sex toys which are too big for their anatomy the first time,” says Deb Laino, a clinical sexologist and relationship therapist, which is why smaller is always better when trying a sex toy for the first time. This is especially true when it comes to anal toys: It's easy to cause yourself pain or even injury if you're overzealous when inserting it, so out of an abundance of caution, consider starting with a super-slim product like this one. It tops out at less than an inch wide, so it's an approachable introduction for the anal-curious, regardless of gender or anatomy.
Pros: Small size makes it beginner-friendly; tapered tip for easier insertion; contoured shape for sphincter stimulation; crescent-shaped base fits comfortably between buttcheeks
Cons: May not be large/satisfying enough for some users
When I'm in the mood to use a wand and want to feel fancy AF, this is the one I grab. The sleek silicone and curved metallic handle look gorgeous together, and the vibrations are satisfyingly rumbly–it's the full package! As one Lovehoney reviewer put it, “[I] fell in love with the design of this product... It’s great for sore muscles, as well as masturbation. You have to love a multifunctional and beautifully designed sex toy.”
Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; 10 vibration settings; ergonomically-shaped handle; luxurious aesthetic; long battery life; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Expensive; some users report mechanical issues (although Lelo offers a warranty)
With a price tag nearing $200, this wand is quite an investment, but its quality aluminum construction and extra-rumbly vibrations make it worth it. "It’s super intense, but can be used through layers of clothing, or even through a duvet or pillow," Yau says. Being made of metal, though, this wand is one of the heaviest on this list, so it's best avoided if you have hand strength issues or just don't want masturbation to turn into an arm workout.
Pros: Very powerful vibrations; double-weighted head for extra rumbliness; luxurious metal construction; LED-lighted buttons for easier use in the dark; continuous speed progression (press and hold to incrementally turn up speed)
Cons: Very heavy; initially cold to the touch; requires an electrical outlet; some users report mechanical issues
German brand Fun Factory is known for making toys that look, well, fun. Their wand vibe is no exception: it comes in bright orange or cool blue, its rounded buttons click satisfyingly with each press, and it features a unique swirled texture on its head and handle. But, even more importantly, its vibrations are stellar. The first time I used this toy, I came so hard that I had the wind knocked out of me and worried I might've woken up my roommate with my yell.
Pros: Powerful, rumbly vibrations; five speeds and three patterns; fun aesthetic; ridged head holds onto lube better; travel lock function; buttons light up; very long battery life; quiet
Cons: Ridged head can be hard to clean
